Good timing extends to air travel, too. To snag deals, experts suggest flying on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and early on Saturdays. Also, sign up for e-newsletters that alert you to discounts. “Airlines have unadvertised sales all the time,” says George Hobica, founder of Airfarewatchdog.com, whose e-mail alert gives promotional codes. These sales usually last 24 to 48 hours and are good for travel up to 11 months in the future. He also suggests buying peak-period (during holidays and spring break) tickets far in advance: “Fares won't come down if you wait, and worse, flights will be sold out.”
Rack up those points
Frequent flyer miles and other loyalty programs from hotels, airlines and credit cards can be your ticket to paradise. If you haven't done so already, join one. Sometimes just registering gets you perks: At Fairmont Hotels & Resorts, enrollees get free Wi-Fi.
Dan Sondhelm, an Alexandria, Va., based financial marketing consultant and self-described “point junkie,” earned enough currency through Starwood Hotels' loyalty program and frequent flyer miles — he travels about 50,000 miles a year — to cover his 2006 honeymoon in Tahiti, which would have cost about $8,000. “We saved a ton, so we could put that money toward having fun when we got there,” he says.
Low on points? Seek donations from friends and family, since most points are transferable. “I never thought we'd be able to afford a 10-day honeymoon in Hawaii on the salaries of a nurse and teacher,” says Lia Moss, of Chicago, who with her husband, Ben Blair, visited the Big Island this past August using miles donated by Ben's dad. “That saved us about $1,500. Crazy!”
The only caveat with miles: Book early, at least six months out, as supply (the number of award seats available) is limited and demand is high.
Fly off-peak
Honeymoons
Honeymoons that won’t break the bank
Travel experts and couples offer tips on how to live large while paying less
By Elaine Glusac
It's your honeymoon, so naturally, you're thinking big. Two-weeks-in-Tahiti big. Fulfilling post-nuptial travel fantasies often involves a splurge, but when you factor in today's sky-high airfares, stagnant salaries and good old-fashioned belt-tightening (and we don't mean seat belts), there's a good chance you'll end up in a honeymoon money crunch. These days, it pays to be a smart traveler who knows how to beat the system by finding its backdoors. As you plan your trip, brush up on these budget travel tips.
Go when they least expect you
Off-season travel is always cheaper as hotels slash rates — often by 40 percent — to attract guests. But, yes, “low season” can also be code for “bad weather.” For example, hotel rates in the Caribbean plunge from May to November, which includes the prime hurricane months of July to October. It's a risk, but one that may be worth the savings: Christine Cordes, a consultant from Falls Church, Va., and her husband, Matt, gambled on Mexico's Yucatan Peninsula in June and got a good deal — and good weather. Similarly, Morgan and Sarah Stuart, a neurosurgery resident and a high school teacher from New York City, saved hundreds of dollars per night on their Curacao honeymoon last August. “We knew it was off-season, but because the island is below the hurricane belt, we felt confident the weather would be nice — and it was,” says Sarah.
“If you really want to save money in the tropics, go in September or October and spend an extra $100 for travel insurance,” advises Gabe Saglie, senior editor of Travelzoo.com, which tracks travel deals (insurance, however, won't cover a week of rain — just major weather events, like hurricanes). Don't want to risk clouds? Think “shoulder season,” the buffer months just before and after high season, when rates are reduced but not rock bottom and the weather generally tends to be fine.
Dinner In wedding
If only the rehearsal dinner had been a bit different from the wedding
Have you been to a weekend wedding where the festivities start out with a fabulous rehearsal celebration? We're talking four-course meal, disc jockey, the works.
The next night is the wedding: a great four-course meal and dancing, along with the cake-cutting and a decked-out bride and groom. But there's something a little bit old about this. We all just did almost the same thing yesterday. It was fun, it was elegant. But it was just yesterday.Here's the lesson: Vary the style of your events. The purpose of the rehearsal is to put all of the close family and friends of the bride and groom at ease with one another. It should leave them psyched for the wedding the next day and make them all feel sort of like distant relatives. If your wedding will be a formal ballroom affair, have a barbecue rehearsal dinner, for example. It may be a catered barbecue party. But guests should show up in shorts and sandals. They should drink colorful drinks with umbrellas and dance to mariachi music or something equally fun — as long as it's different. If you are having an evening tent-wedding, then your in-laws should throw you a rehearsal dinner at a funky Mexican restaurant or a dude ranch or a similarly offbeat venue.
Sometimes, what's going on is a subtle desire by the groom's parents to show off just a little bit. They might want to throw the wedding, really. They might wish they were the bride's parents. They mean well, because they want to give you something lovely, even if you already have it. But you need to get the message across that you want only one wedding. Help them think of creative rehearsal-dinner ideas that may inspire them. But don't compete with your own party. Your wedding day deserves to shine on its own.
Tips for your Wedding Ceremony
If only we hadn't spent the cocktail hour having our portraits taken
Yes, you have to have those posed photos. However, there is something disappointing about wasting that post-ceremony joy standing in front of a camera for an hour while your guests are waiting eagerly for the VIPs to arrive.
You have a couple of options. One is to keep the number of portraits very small. Ask your photographer what can be accomplished in half an hour. Be sure that he or she has the portrait site set up before the ceremony, that the backdrop and the lighting are all set. Then, keep things quick. If you have a wedding consultant, she or he can usher the immediate family and wedding party right into the portrait area after the ceremony.
The other, and usually the more efficient option, is to take all or most of the posed photos before the ceremony. Definitely do all the shots that involve only one of you (like the groom with his parents and wedding party, and the bride with hers) before the ceremony. That leaves fewer shots for the photographer to take after the wedding. It also means that you must be ready at least an hour before the ceremony.
It is becoming much more common these days, however, for the bride and groom to drop tradition and do all of their wedding portraits before the wedding ceremony. Brides and grooms who have done this do not report that their wedding ceremony was a letdown in any way. No groom has ever stood at the bottom of the aisle, watching the bride walk toward him, thinking, "Oh, that old dress again."
Is the best man about to wing the toast? Stop him! Brides.com presents seven subtle wedding mistakes and tips to avoid them
You've been to more than a few weddings in your lifetime, and you've probably heard far more than your fair share of advice about the obvious wedding pitfalls. But there are a few more subtle wedding miscalculations — we can't really call them disasters — that even the most well-organized, well-meaning brides and grooms can fall prey to. These are not the kinds of things that ruin a wedding day forever, but they are things that you may find yourself mulling over a few days after the nuptials. It was great, you may find yourself thinking, and it would have been just perfect, if only: If only we hadn't stayed until the last guests were climbing into their cars Yes, it's true. Even the bride and groom can overstay their welcome. Most polite guests will feel as though they should wait for the two of you to leave before they take off themselves. So to keep them from feeling weird about departing before you do — and to avoid seeing the sad image of the vacant, post-party reception site — leave the boozy dancing, the doling out of floral centerpieces, and the collecting of stray purses to your mother, your friends, or your wedding consultant. Go to your hotel room and relive every moment of the day with each other (or whatever). Just be sure to leave with a group of your biggest fans cheering in the distance.
